Step 1: EMOTIONAL HEALING & LETTING GO
When I worked with my coach I was starting to uncover how lonely and misunderstood I felt. I had incredible plans for my business and I was already living an amazing lifestyle, I just wanted to share it with someone who understood and shared the same vision and passions.
One of my mentors spoke about resistance - if you are not getting what you want in life, if you are going around in circles and keep repeating the same patterns, there is something you are resisting, something you are not seeing, that is keeping you in this stuck circle. In my signature program The Love Journey, we work through these practical exercises so you can have your own breakthrough.
Step 2: CLARITY
I had a loose idea of what I wanted, but never crystallised what that would look like. And because of this, my values & criteria for the kinds of guys I would accept dates with always changed, and my results were so random. I would meet lots of great guys, but none that fit me perfectly. They would be great as an ideal match, but I knew my life as an ambitious female entrepreneur would not allow me to settle for anyone who wasn't also in a similar situation.
Step 3: ACTION
I did a lot of work on manifesting the perfect partner and raising my vibration to tune into the abundance of the universe. Putting my request out to the world and letting go was the final part of the process. Letting go of expectation, attachment & worry is necessary - it's like making an order with the waiter at the restaurant - and then to keep checking in on the chef to make sure he is doing the right thing - doesn't work! Just sit back and enjoy, and allow your order to be served to you when it's ready.