When you close that gap, everything about how you move through the world shifts.
The people you attract, the rooms you end up in, the connections that form - they all change the quality of people you attract.
The second thing most women are missing is recognising him when he does show up, trusting yourself to choose well — that came later for me too.
But it started here.
Getting into the right rooms first meant my whole outlook changed.
It stopped being about dating (and don't they always say, 'just go do you and live an amazing life')
It became about living in alignment with who I actually am.
The right man followed very quickly from that.